Monday
Jul252005

double digits and counting...

cadence turns 10 months old

...cadence turned 10 months old yesterday…TEN MONTHS…now i’ve run out of fingers for counting how old she is…it’s all going so fast!

and yesterday, she started saying ‘um-mah’ which is korean for mommy! i’ve been trying to get her to say it cuz she’s only being saying dada for such a long time…before, when i’d ask her to say ‘mama,’ she’d say ‘baba’…but yesterday morning, i asked her to say ‘um-MAH’, and she said it exactly the way i said it, with a cute little stress on the last syllable…it was the most adorable thing i’ve heard her say EVER…

so now i know that she really listens to what we’re saying…it’s so cute listening to her imitate our voices…she’ll even wave her hand and in a sing-songy voice say ‘die!’ which is her way of saying either ‘hi!’ or ‘bye!’ ted wants to teach her how to say ‘suckas!’ to add to that little phrase, but i don’t know if that’s such a good idea…

Tuesday
Jul192005

intonation fest part deux

yay cadence!

...so the whole family (ted, cadence and i) went to day 2 of the intonation festival in chicago's union park on sunday...we got there nice and early so that we could reclaim my spot underneath the big honey locust tree...it was sooooo much hotter than saturday due to an increase in not only temperature but in humidity as well...cadence did NOT like the humidity, and we had to basically strip her down to her diapers to help her cool off...here she is looking adorable while clapping AND standing all by herself, while her daddy looks on proudly...

a soulful gaze

...and here she is looking up adoringly at her dada...

it was a long, friggin' hot day, and i got a killer of a headache by the time we went home...witnessed some great music though...didn't take photos of all the bands...i was using my 10x optical zoom for most of the photos cuz i'd be damned if i was gonna leave my spot under the shade...although i did get up to go see the wrens cuz they were playing the stage that was a city block away from where we were sitting...i thought all the bands were worth my money, and i gotta give them credit for giving it their all in the chicago-style killer heat...here are just a few photos of some of the bands that played:

xiuxiu

this is the girl part of xiu xiu...gotta love a girl who knows how to handle her gongs...

deerhoof

this is the frontgirl for deerhoof...probably one of the weirdest acts i've seen in a long time...it's like they took all the little english phrases that make no sense that you'll find on asian (particularly japanese and korean)products such as pencil cases and book bags and they insert them randomly in the midst of their music...but you gotta like a band that has a son with the lyrics "pork chop...pork chop" or "bunny bunny bunny bunny...bunny!"

the wrens

and here are the wrens...

the wrens

...rawking out...TIGHT! the bass player threw his bass way up in the air and caught it...three times in a row!!! now that takes true talent...

les savy fav

and here we have the fronto for les savy fav who i would have to vote as the funniest indie rock fronter that i've seen in a long time...i think only rosie thomas would make me laugh more...different kinds of humor though...i have to say though that they had the crowd dancing, which is always a good thing...right?

other bands i enjoyed were the hold steady, andrew bird, dungen, thunderbirds are now!, and i only got to hear the first song by the decemberists cuz the pain in my head was getting so huge it was requiring its own zip code...they sounded tight though, that one little song i heard...

so that's the gist of it folks...cadence was much more cranky on sunday, but i think we all were, what with the heat and humidity and garbage and all...next year, i'm gonna have to get her better ear protection cuz she kept pulling out her ear plugs...i'm thinking ted's already decided there will be no next year...we'll see...

Tuesday
Jul192005

i'm it! (meme to follow)

i've never participated in a meme before, as far as i can remember, but i've been tagged by graeme @ wicker chronicles so here goes...it's a book meme, yay! cuz i wish i were more bookish...

1. Total number of books I've owned: 200? 500? 1232.43? uh, i dunno...who's counting? i sure do remember spending a lot of $$$ on books in college and grad school, so i'm sure it's a big number...

2. Last book I bought: Life of the Beloved by Henri Nouwen

3. Last book I completed: Strawberries are Red by Peter Horacek...oh wait, that's cadence's book...last book i read with more than 7 pages is Life of the Beloved by Henri Nouwen cuz that's the last book i bought.

4. Five books that mean a lot to me: (Not listed in order of favoritism)

  • life after god by douglas coupland (thank you, jenny hart, wherever you are)
  • catcher in the rye/franny and zooey by j.d. salinger (sorry, couldn't decide)
  • the dream of a ridiculous man by fyodor dostoyevsky
  • the dharma bums by kerouac
  • the lion, the witch and the wardrobe by c.s. lewis

4b. What are you currently reading:

5. Which 5 bloggers am I passing this on to? (If they want to and have the time! at least it's a short meme...eh, they'll probably never read this anyway...)

blistermoth

nanette

guu

the EJ

crhee8

anyone else who wants to jump in...

Sunday
Jul172005

toto, i don't think we're in bushnell any more*

thax douglas opens up the first ever intonation festival

...well, cadence and i survived our first day of the intonation festival...and here's thax douglas opening up the whole thing with a poem for head of femur, who were the first band to play...

...we stopped at trader joe's on the way to the festival to have lunch w/ daddy and to buy some bottled water...cadence hadn't had her nap, and she was pretty cranky when we left TJs and cried uncontrollably until i pulled over next to a fire hydrant somewhere on roscoe...it didn't help matters that traffic was a total bear...i got her out of her carseat and we stood in the shade as she recomposed herself and squealed at some passing dogs and babies...after i was satisfied that she was reassured of my love and devotion, i put her back in the car with her sippy cup to entertain her (she won't actually drink out of that thing on her own) and we drove off...

i got to union park down on ashland ave and randolph street about an hour later than i'd wanted, and there was a long line formed already...for some reason, the gates which were supposed to open at noon were still closed at half past noon...it sounded like they were still soundchecking...there wasn't much i could do but stand around...i had cadence strapped to me in my ellaroo and was strollerless, so i was carrying the diaper bag on my back and our brand new nifty outdoor blanket over my shoulder...i wasn't in any mood for waiting in line, esp. in the sun, and neither was cadence...after about 10 minutes of waiting, when they finally started letting people in, cadence started losing it...

now here's when having a crying, fidgety (understatement) baby can be an advantage...i walked up to the guy who was the head of security for the festival (at least head of gate security) and told him that my baby was losing it and was there any other way i could get in without having to wait in the long line being hammered on by the sun? he thought about it for a few seconds and then told me to go to the front of the line and tell them that bill (i'm supposing that was his name) sent me...so we got in right away, and it's a good thing cuz we got first dibbs on the shade...

we found a nice spot under a big tree pretty close to one of the stages...there was an older lady (by older, i mean older than me) already sitting on a blanket under the tree, and she was nice enough to help me spread my blanket next to her...it was a smart move on my part (not that i was thinking about it at the time) because when you're alone at an indie rock festival, those young angsty hipsters with their torn clothes and cigarettes are NOT gonna be the ones to help you...it's the nice older looking ladies already laying on a blanket reading a book who are gonna help you...it turns out this lady was there with her 15 year old son, so she was impressed that i would come out with my baby daughter, and was helpful all during the festival, helping me look for cadence's ear plugs every time we lost one, and letting cadence flirt with her...she commented to me shortly before we left that cadence is just a perfect little baby and that she wouldn't've dreamed of doing this with her son when he was cadence's age...

cadence demonstrates proper ear protection for a rock 'n' roll festival

...so here's little cadence (wearing proper ear protection of course) blowing raspberries at her first indie rock festival...she happens to LOVE playing on a blanket in the outdoors, so she was a totally happy camper...i had a big bottle of cheerios, and there was ALWAYS milk in my boob when she needed hydration and some fatty nourishment, so we were pretty much set...she crawled around, played with her toys, cooed, clapped, bounced, danced, smiled, laughed, flirted...things got REALLY fun for her when my friends derek and linda becker joined us with derek's cousin and his wife and tom shekleton...if there's one thing cadence loves, it company! she crawled right up to linda and gave her a hug and laid her head down on her shoulder...it was one of the sweetest things i've seen her do, esp. considering she hasn't seen the beckers since she was first born...she's usually not that warm with strangers...

...anywho, about the music--head of femur was the first band to play...i've heard of them for a long time now because they play out in chicago all the time, but i've never actually seen them or heard their music...i actually liked it...they use a bunch of instruments not common to your basic indie rock band...things like trombones...they were definitely energetic enough...the next band up was pelican, another chicago area band who play out pretty frequently but whom i've never seen...they played on the stage that was all the way across the park (the acts were alternating between stages so there was hardly any lag time in between bands cuz the next act would already be set up and ready to go on the other stage) but we heard them really well from where we were sitting...i wasn't about to move from my prime spot in the shade...and the other stage had no shade area, so you were pretty much at the mercy of the sun, which i wasn't about to endure...anywho, pelican were pretty awesome, so were the m's after them...ac newman of the new pornagraphers had some sound problems and i couldn't really get into his music too much, although it was great when andrew bird got up there and whistled on one of his songs...the last band we stayed for was magnolia electric company, which is jason molina's latest project...jason used to play under the moniker songs:ohia, and i've seen him perform solo before...his music was really different with a full band supporting him...much more rockin' going on...i was impressed...i've always enjoyed jason's haunting melody lines and lyrics, and those are still intact it seems...i'll have to check these guys out more in the future...

anywho, cadence and i packed up during the four tet set...i had wanted to stay for broken social scene, but i was getting pretty exhausted, and ted's sister lauren and her boyfriend douglas, who's visiting from sweden, were supposed to come over to our apt. so doug could finally meet cadence...besides, i knew we'd have a whole another day of intonating all day sunday, so i figured we should get our rest...

*as for the bushnell reference in the title of this post, bushnell, IL is where the premier(for lack of a better word) christian rock cornerstone festival is held every year in the plowed cornfields of western illinois...this is referenced in sufjan stevens's latest album come on: feel the illinoise on track 17 called "Let's Hear That String Part Again, Because I Don't Think They Heard It All The Way Out In Bushnell "...i did the merch tent for two summers at cornerstone, and i can definitely say that the intonation festival is nothing like it...for one thing, i wasn't in a 100+ degree merch tent the whole time...anywho...

Saturday
Jul162005

R.I.P.

here is some heartbreaking news i got this morning from miss mia's kickass newsletter:

Bond was denied Friday for a 23-year-old woman accused of intentionally ramming her car into another vehicle at a Skokie intersection in a suicide attempt, killing three men from Chicago and injuring three others.

Jeanette Sliwinski was charged with three counts of first-degree murder and two counts of aggravated battery in connection with the Thursday afternoon crash at Niles Center Road and Dempster Street, according to a news release from Skokie police.

Sliwinski...was denied bond when a hearing was held in the Skokie Courthouse in her absence, while she remains hospitalized from the crash, Cook County state's attorney's office spokesman Tom Stanton said.

Stanton did not know which judge presided over the hearing.

Sliwinski was accused of intentionally ramming her 2000 red Ford Mustang into a 2001 Honda Civic, which was stopped at a red light, because she was distraught and trying to kill herself, Stanton said. He said her car was travelling more than 70 mph before the impact.

Three men in the Civic were killed. They were identified as Michael Dahlquist, 39, John Glick, 35, and Douglas Meis, 29, all of Chicago, according to release.

Stanton said Sliwinski was not seriously injured.

-via nbc5.com

FYI, these are three men from 3 different chicago area bands...michael dahlquist was the drummer for silkworm, john glick (a.k.a. bobby james lee ray) guitarist with the returnables and doug meis was the drummer for the dials...michael was also the editor for last year's chicago's underground film fest surprise hit 'why should the devil have all the good music'...

i held cadence just a bit closer as i put her down for her morning nap while we listened to iron+wine's 'creek drank the cradle'...life really can be over in the blink of an eye...and now that i have a family, i think about stuff like that, and i just hope and pray that each day i will impart to my loved ones, esp. teddy and cadence, just how much i love and cherish them...